Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Sunday, March 24, 2013

People are so judgmental?

So true.
Part of the growing up stages, i saw many and heard many. It's so true that people don't see the part where they are the worst and they just keep judging. Do you really think that you are so damn good that you can judge people? Are you really flawless? No one is flawless, and no one is to judge. 
People judge because they are jealous. No? Yes, well if they deserve what they deserve, they deserved. Don't be jealous. All you can do is to think that they are lucky i am not lucky. 
Don't be surprise that your best friend, bff, boyfriend, girlfriends judge at you because you judged at them too. Whats so nice to be competitive? It's not like you would gain anything but just good grades. So what if you have good grades but you are a judgmental person?
To be honest, i am judgmental too and i could be at my worst and i realize it myself too and actually i feel guilty for what i had did. But what if you are judgmental and doesn't realize it yourself? Then i think that you think too highly about yourself. When you are right, you talked more but when you wrong what do you do? You either remain silent, change talking topics, avoid or act like nothing happened. How ironic right? 
You boast like you are the top of the world, but when you are wrong you act like you are still at the top of the world.
"Learn to balance, if it something to be proud of, be proud of it, if it is not something to be proud of, keep it to yourself."
I think this apply only to people who wishes to change for the better. I realize that a person who like to complain so much cannot do this. No? I am judging here right now, but i think this is so true because i see it myself.

Saturday, January 12, 2013

BOYS, GIRLS

Are you, ...

Attention-seeking girl?
Love sticking around guy?
Copy others?
Doesn't care about bf/gf feelings?
Thinking that your bf/gf should meet the same criteria as your friend's bf/gf?
Sneaking out with guy/girl?
Cheating behind your bf/gf?
Asking for allowance from bf/gf?
Taking advantage of everything?
etcetcetc

Good girls are hard to find, faithful girls are even harder to find.
Good guys are hard to find, faithful guys are even harder to find.

Above mention;Seen too much and hear too much. Different type of girl/guy would think differently. Does true love really come with money first or commitment? I think if we are talking about money, there's a Chinese saying " Talk about money hurt one's feeling ". True love, doesn't involve money, one's take the initiative. I think when it comes to love for me, it's feeling. Wealthy or not doesn't really matter as i am not in love with your money. Well if partner is not wealthy, then we should fight through it together, solve every crisis together, if not what are the marriage vows for?